Ladies WEAR YOUR CROWN STRAIGHT

Ladies you are a Queen. Let me repeat that again. Ladies YOU ARE A QUEEN ! Please wear your crown properly. It saddens me to see so many of my Queens wearing their crowns so crooked, or just handing it over to someone else, and now they are being controlled because they no longer have authority of their own life. In order to even have that honor to be called a queen, you have to act like such. What happened to having standards and being chased. These days it doesn’t take much for a guy to get a woman into his bed. He takes her out to a fancy restaurant, tells her what she wants to hear, gets the goods, and a day or week later ( depending on your fastness) yes I just blatantly put you out there, he is nowhere to be found. Now ladies let’s be honest. Of course he is going to tell you everything wonderful about yourself. But if he barely knows you, let’s be honest again. What is he telling you that YOU DO NOT ALREADY KNOW? ” Oh you are so sexy, so beautiful, you have a nice figure, looks like you have a good head on your shoulders”. Say thank you and move on politely. You’re probably like well what if he genuinely was giving me a compliment. Not to say that is not possible. But watch his timing on when and how he says certain things. Your gut will be able to tell real from fraud.

Ladies, yes you need to be chased, but you also need to be challenged. Other than making you feel warm at night ( that’s another discussion) how is he challenging you to become a better individual and woman. Does he court you? Does he compliment you on things that are not so obvious to others? Meaning he pays attention to ” Your Details”.  Before we move on let us define ” Your Details” . Seems self explanatory right? Well to some it may not be that obvious so let me break it down. This pertains to you and only you. This shows if the person you are dating really pays attention when you  talk, and is not always nodding yes to everything you say. Ladies it is also vital that you pay attention to your mans details as well. Let me repeat that again. LADIES ” PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR MAN AS WELL” .. they lowkey love the attention as well. Certain things or tricks you may have done for someone else may not work as well on him. Make him happy ( of course if he is worth it) and you will get it back tenfold. An example of a guy not paying attention to ” MY DETAILS” relates back to this guy that I used to date a long time ago. Very nice sweet gentleman, but clearly as you can see was not a keeper. Any who, Valentine’s Day was approaching, and for us women that is a very important holiday. Sorry fellas. Anyway, throughout random conversations I would always hint that I disliked dark chocolate and other types of chocolate as well. But that I lovedddd white chocolate. Valentine’s Day arrived and I received each type of chocolate that I did not eat. Imagine the look that I had on my face. But still grateful for the gift ( because he went out of his way and bought it, because he really did not have to) I said thank you. Along with some other things that occurred throughout the time of him courting me, I knew he was not my future. And no not because of some basic chocolate in a box but, my gut told me he was not the one. He clearly didn’t pay attention to ” My details”. So ladies let us do better and be better ! Please WEAR YOUR CROWN STRAIGHT!

-Madam Koverage

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